How to ask for help from people who don't know you

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There is only one principle. Put yourself in their mind

If you get a no, a good response is for you to thank them for their time and move on

The 7 Types Of Advice (And 3 Common Failure Modes) — LessWrong

Reposting my Inkhaven post on ontology of advice here. …

Be Generous & Unique - Colossus

Kevin Kelly co-founded Wired magazine and is the author of the book Excellent Advice for Living. We cover his concept of the Technium, why rituals are an underappreciated part of society and family life, and the importance of developing your authentic self over a lifetime.

Recognise the point of giving advice and you can do it better

A philosophical look at advising highlights what makes it a distinct form of interaction – and why it often goes wrong

The Technium: 103 Bits of Advice I Wish I Had Known

UPDATE Several years ago on my 68th birthday I wrote up 68 bits of advice for my adult children, and posted them here. The bits were extremely popular, and they were widely shared by others. I was encouraged to write … Continue reading →

One simple way to build someone’s confidence: Ask for their advice

When we want people to change, we typically tell them what to do. But what if we flipped the script and asked them for their wisdom instead? Behavioral scientist Katy Milkman PhD explains the power…

How to Give Better Advice

Research reveals the common mistakes we make when trying to help.